Recently my cousin was getting married and I asked my aunt we hardly know that person and you people decided to marry them and she replied No, beta we know his cousin uncle from 5 years and he recommended this "Rishta" I was like how knowing his uncle makes you know that person? Like seriously, what a fucked up logic? Yes, they are married but not happy but who cares "Same religion" is what matters! How parents and relatives turn to be total communist when it comes to marriage is seriously so stupid, they will curse all other religions to death and make their religion the #1 by all means.My cousin brother was about to get married last October and it he was the first person in our family who was about to do love marriage but he broke up with the girl before few weeks of marriage for some reasons no one knows about and since then it became an example for every kid in the house on how love marriage ends up. In a heated argument, one of my uncle said "Usne love marriage kerke kiyaukhad liya?" I replied "App logo ne arrange marriage kerke kiyaukahd liya?" and there was a pin drop silence. Ask your parents if they are happy with their marriage and tell them to answer honestly, if they really say the truth 99% of them will say they are not. Almost all women are with their husbands just for the sake of their children and fear of the society. We mock American culture but if we had real freedom in society like they do the divorce rates would be a lot higher in India as Indian men honestly sucks, all their life they are taught by their parents to be some kind of superior human who can get whatever they want because he has a dick, which really makes him a dick in real life!